What Are You Looking At?
I noticed something lately …
And I’m not sure what it means … if anything.
Back in the old days … you know, any time two months ago and earlier …
When I was out and about … it seemed like women were the ones looking at me … noticing me … maybe reading me, maybe not, who knows, but definitely noticing me, and looking at me, even if just briefly …
Guys … rarely ever looked at my face … their looks were neck on down.
But I’ve been out and about a great deal the last several weeks …
And something I’ve noticed is really strange …
Lately, women rarely, if ever, look at me.
No eye contact.
No smile.
Nothing.
I’m completely unnoticed.
Men on the other hand,
Are attempting eye contact with me more and more frequently.
I can’t figure out what any of this means.
At first I was thinking maybe the women weren’t looking at me to be nice, that they were reading me, but were not going to stare …
While the men sensed something was odd … and where trying to stare me down to figure it out.
But then I thought, maybe I’m at the point of presentation, where I’ve reduced my tells enough that they don’t pick up that I might be something they’d be curious to look at … so they pay no attention to me when they’ve got other, more important things going on … like holiday shoping.
Whereas guys … maybe that whole eye contact thing some are tossing at me … is an interest indicator of some sort. Maybe they are trying to engage an opportunity for communication.
I don’t know.
Probably nothing.
But I’m not complaining …
I totally dig the change.
I hope it lasts.
The best smile is when you keep on walking 🙂 I do believe it’s called “wrapping someone around your little finger”
🙂
Smiles draw the attention of men. Perks ’em right up.
:)) Yeah, actually I am … I’m smiling a great deal … I’ve got this stupid grin on my face practically all the time that I just can’t wipe off !! 🙂
Here’s a note to self…
Guys like to look at woman. Its almost automatic. They can’t help it.
You’re a woman. Ergo, guys are going to look at you.
Makenna
Are you smiling more now?