Eddie LeBec pregame drink<\/a>.<\/p>\nWe engaged in an extended period of pre-disclosure chatting … discussing a very interesting development with a friend of her’s … a development which is causing her a great deal of stress …<\/p>\n
In fact … she warned me … good naturedly … before my Disclosure … that she couldn’t take much more this week.<\/p>\n
Hehe … and in light of how we like to pester each other … that made the thought of my Disclosure and its subsequent mind blowing ramifications so much more pleasant to contemplate !! \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
Considering I don’t trust her one bit when it comes to keeping a secret … I spent a little more time than normal on the “Please be discreet with this information” part of my preface … I skimmed over my terminology disclaimer and then went right into it.<\/p>\n
“I suffer from a condition referred to as Gender Identity Disorder, a condition often associated with Transsexualism, and a condition which sometimes leads those afflicted to seek a Sex Change Operation.<\/i>”<\/p>\n
Same ol’ … same ol.<\/p>\n
She took it well. Knowing it was going to be a serious talk … she had her game face on … and didn’t react strongly. In fact, she went totally into practical-mode … inquirying about specifics, timing and implentation issues.<\/p>\n
We laughed about how she totally couldn’t take any more such information this week.<\/p>\n
She asked me to please not tell her I have a thing for Shaft …<\/p>\n
And after recovering from the immediate tossing of my lunch even hearing such a comment evoked, I assured her it was not a risk and added that I continue to be disturbed by the image created when Shaft and I are in one another’s presence suggesting Shaft would even had a shot with someone like me.<\/p>\n
Of course, the back handed insult to her associated with that statement went completely unnoticed. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
I did tell her what a great man her husband was … and what a remarkable friend he has been throughout this for me. Hopefully hearing such good and true words about her husband softened her cold, evil exterior somewhat so Shaft got a little actioooon when she got home.<\/p>\n
She seemed to struggle with distinguishing GID from sexual orientation. I tried to address it, but she mentioned a few times how it’d be a lot easier if I was just gay.<\/p>\n
She inquired of the extent of my ffs, how my parents were doing with it, who knew and she offered help associated with my ffs recovery.<\/p>\n
I told her that it was my experience that after we separated, at some point what we talked about would really hit her and she’d have a bunch of questions … the magnitude of which would almost overwhelm her. And at whatever point she needed, to never hestitate to call and ask questions.<\/p>\n
We hugged one another and went our respective ways.<\/p>\n
At 11:32 a.m. the following day … the magnitude of what we talked about really hit her and she had a bunch of questions<\/p>\n
We talked on the phone with me answering some, and I’m sure more will follow. It’s really nice to be able to talk openly about it. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n
Total elapsed time … quite long actually … 2 hours and 20 minutes. And despite the angst I always experience spending any more than 3 minutes in the presence of Satan … it was probably my most fun Disclosure yet. \ud83d\ude42 Totally comforting and a tumbs up to Satan. She was totally cool and understanding. Just going to prove my theory once again … “things are a lot more fun when you just don’t care !<\/i>” \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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