{"id":441,"date":"2003-08-29T05:54:11","date_gmt":"2003-08-29T10:54:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amynews.com\/?p=433"},"modified":"2015-10-08T17:43:34","modified_gmt":"2015-10-08T21:43:34","slug":"lets-make-a-deal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/2003\/08\/lets-make-a-deal\/","title":{"rendered":"Let’s Make A Deal"},"content":{"rendered":"

I’m not sure how to explain this … but I’ll give it a shot.<\/p>\n

Most desire for me to stick it out in boy role, do an Option 3. And since some are in the Bargaining stage of acceptance, I’m getting approached with compromises … and one of the ideas being tossed at me right now is …<\/p>\n

Cease all hormone intake, cease all Amy-mode lifestyle and moderate my resulting GID with anti-anxiety drugs like Xanax<\/a> and the such.<\/i><\/p>\n

One of the reaons I think this one is getting so much air-time is because I’ve never tried it.
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\nNo one, meaning counselors, have ever suggested that I need any such medication. Let’s see, last count I think I was around 150 hours of therapy sessions and prolly around a dozen various docs checking me out for different things at one time or another … part of the whole evaluatioooon process is to eliminate other possible causes for the feelings of anxiety … depression, muliple personality disorder, bi-polar disorder, blah, blah and blah … no one has even suggested or even hinted I am anything other than an oddly happy, well adjusted, optimistic person … and that my feelings of discomfort, my lifelong feelings of unease … is gender identity dysphoria, a condition characteristic of transsexuals. It’s the correct diagnosis. I know.<\/p>\n

With that being the diagnosis, no one really suggested anything like Xanax or such anti-anxiety meds in an attempt to alleviate the anxiety. And heck, it never crossed my mind.<\/p>\n

So when asked …<\/p>\n

I honestly can’t say I’ve tried it.<\/p>\n

BINGO !<\/p>\n

Now suddenly there’s something to toss out for me to try that I haven’t tried before. Something not as extreme as having a sex change.<\/p>\n

Ugh.<\/i><\/p>\n

Well, my first response is that I’m fairly confident if such was an effective treatment option, I’d have heard of it. Wrong Answer.<\/i> Since I haven’t heard of it, and since it seems to be an obvious solution from others’ viewpoint, I just haven’t done my research as thoroughly as I’d like people to believe<\/u>.<\/p>\n

Ugh.<\/i><\/p>\n

You feel anxiety right? There are anti-anxiety drugs, right? Just take those instead and don’t have a sex change. It’s easy.<\/p>\n

Ugh.<\/i><\/p>\n

I really don’t think that it would be an effective treatment approach. I don’t think the anti-anxiety drugs available are formulated to treat gender identity disorder. They are formulated to treat other specific anxiety-type disorders. If we’re going to just do a blanket hit of medication to suppress the discomfort, it’s easier just to drink the pain away. And ultimately I don’t think that would be any more destructive than using a hodge-podge of prescription drugs. Both I think are dangerous approaches.<\/p>\n

But you don’t know?<\/p>\n

Ugh.<\/i><\/p>\n

No, I don’t. But this is my perspective. If the applicable Standards of Care for this condition, and accepted medical procedures, all said that treatment should be with anti-anxiety drugs, and no one had ever tried a gender transition solution, would you be advocating as passionately to disregard the Standards of Care and accepted medical procedures in favor of trying out a gender transition solution that has never been evaluated? Because that’s what you’re suggesting I do. I’m treating my condition By The Book. Slow, deliberate, cautious. I don’t like the solution anymore than you, but from my slow, deliberate, cautious approach, I get the feeling it’s the right thing for me. Gender transition is the closet thing I’m going to get to a cure. In fact, if it’s successful, it is a cure in my mind. Drugs like you’re suggesting aren’t a cure, it’s an attempt to treat the symptons, but the symptons don’t do away. Just the pain associated with them. And just temporarily. And I’d always know, it’d return.<\/p>\n

Ugh.<\/i><\/p>\n

Interesting how the more people try to talk me out of transition … the more I listen openly to their comments, thoughts, ideas and opinions … the more I become convinced, not only have I done my homework, I’m doing the right thing. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

On a side note … I’ve spent time the past few days trying to find discussion of such an approach … and even my reliable, most valuable tool Google<\/a> didn’t find anything of use for evaluation.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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