{"id":280,"date":"2003-06-01T22:27:50","date_gmt":"2003-06-02T03:27:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amynews.com\/?p=272"},"modified":"2015-10-08T17:45:25","modified_gmt":"2015-10-08T21:45:25","slug":"i-agree-with-them","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/2003\/06\/i-agree-with-them\/","title":{"rendered":"I Agree With Them"},"content":{"rendered":"

I found it interesting ….<\/p>\n

Very interesting.<\/p>\n

Within the last 24 hours …. I’ve talked to two different people about my transsexualism ….. people to whom I am very close …. and who are members of the Group of 10 …. you know, that group that would actually give a rip if I was around or not.<\/p>\n

I value the thoughts of both.<\/p>\n

One of the conversations I initiated ….. the other, I didn’t, and was honestly caught off guard by it. But really both conversations were rather spur of the moment.<\/p>\n

And both conversations were incredibly rewarding and fulfilling for me. Their insights were very confirming ….. and it reassured me that I put the necessary thought into my decision before making it.<\/p>\n

Neither person is crazy about Option 1, though I feel one of them is of the opinion it’s the right thing for me and the other isn’t sure yet. During the extensive discussions ….. we covered and talked about a great deal ….. but something that both said surprised me ….. not because of what was said …. but because both of them, independently, said the same thing …..<\/p>\n

“It would have been better if you had transitioned when you were in your 20’s.”<\/i><\/p>\n

Both felt that by delaying, I am not going to be able to capitalize on all I have worked so far to accomplish and gain in my life to date, and that by delaying transition when I did, I’m not going to have as many opportunities to do things with my life than if I had when I was younger.<\/p>\n

In their context, both of their observations were dead-on accurate.<\/p>\n

And it was encouraging to me how with both, we were able to openly talk about transitioning in a positive way.<\/p>\n

Though I am curious if they each would be so accepting of early transition had I let them know back then.<\/p>\n

Would they have said ….<\/p>\n

“Well, you are the perfect age?”<\/i><\/p>\n

I’ll never know.<\/p>\n

But it’s interesting nonetheless.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I found it interesting …. Very interesting. Within the last 24 hours …. I’ve talked to two different people about my transsexualism ….. people to whom I am very close …. and who are members of the Group of 10 …. you know, that group that would actually give a rip if I was around…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[139],"tags":[],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":139,"label":"General"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy","author_link":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":8,"category_info":[{"term_id":139,"name":"General","slug":"general","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":143,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":775,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":139,"category_count":775,"category_description":"","cat_name":"General","category_nicename":"general","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=280"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/280\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=280"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=280"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=280"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}