“Why would you tell anyone you are even considering having a sex change if you are not definitely going to do it?<\/p>\n
I mean, because, once you tell anyone, things are never the same, so even if you don’t start living as a girl, don’t have a sex change, any relationship you have with people who know you were even thinking about it is going to be different.”<\/i><\/p>\n
Good question ….. I’ve considered it myself …… and after extensive self-reflection …… I’ve concluded the answer is because sometimes ….. I’m a bitch.<\/p>\n
If you want to know how I reach that conclusion, then ……
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\nLet me tell you a secret …..<\/p>\n
A secret that is just so obvious to those who suffer from transsexualism ….<\/p>\n
That we don’t even consider it a secret ….<\/p>\n
Here it is …..<\/p>\n
We would all transition in a heartbeat if we didn’t care about someone else’s feelings.<\/i><\/p>\n
Oh, sure, I know such a general statement can always have its exceptions, but generally speaking (it is<\/i> a general statement), most people don’t transition out of concern for the feelings or impact it would have on a family member or dear friend.<\/p>\n
And this is how I claim to exhibit a moderate level of bitchiness ….<\/p>\n
I’ve lived with this condition my entire life ….. I’ve dealt with it since I’ve been 4 – 5 years old ….. all out of respect and concern for others ….. like you ….. and they never were aware that I was doing something for them …. something that was uncomfortable and difficult for me …..<\/p>\n
And if I decided to continue doing this “thing” for them …… something so uncomfortable and difficult for me …..<\/p>\n
Well, I would want them to know I’m making such a sacrifice.<\/p>\n
I’m just tired of being a silent martyr.<\/p>\n
So ….. that being said ….. by telling you my secret when there is still some chance I will not transition or abort a transition at some point …..<\/p>\n
If I do follow through on the transition, there is no additional harm done, and …<\/p>\n
If I don’t following through on the transition, then you ‘ll know that my selfless nonaction was in some way on your behalf …..<\/p>\n
And that’s something of which I would want you to be well aware …..<\/p>\n
Because no matter how well I would pretend that I was happy and comfortable with nonaction …..<\/p>\n
I would want it to always be a nagging question in the back of your mind …..<\/p>\n
Am I really happy and comfortable?<\/p>\n
And on occasion ……<\/p>\n
You would look in my eyes …..<\/p>\n
And see that my pain remained …..<\/p>\n
All because of you.<\/p>\n
And because your happiness and comfort was more important than mine.<\/p>\n
That’s pretty bitchy, isn’t it ?? lol Gawd, I’ve got such potential !! \ud83d\ude42 I mean, with a sparky ‘tude like that ….. it’d be such a waste not to transition !! \ud83d\ude1b<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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