{"id":1505,"date":"2006-04-18T13:57:59","date_gmt":"2006-04-18T18:57:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/amynews.com\/?p=1549"},"modified":"2015-10-08T17:35:40","modified_gmt":"2015-10-08T21:35:40","slug":"kalling-a-fraternity-brother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/2006\/04\/kalling-a-fraternity-brother\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalling A Fraternity Brother"},"content":{"rendered":"

Guess what I did last Friday?<\/p>\n

NO,<\/p>\n

Not that !!! \"-P\"<\/p>\n

No, what I did was totally Debbie Gibson Out of The Blue,<\/p>\n

I called one of my fraternity brothers !!! <\/p>\n

Yeah …<\/p>\n

Surprised the daylights out of me, too.<\/p>\n

Now, <\/p>\n

To date …<\/p>\n

I haven\u2019t spoken, nor seen as far as I know,<\/p>\n

Any of my fraternity brothers …<\/p>\n

Since the whole sex change thing and all, ya know.<\/p>\n

Though I did correspond via e-mail with a very kewl one a while back,<\/p>\n

But if I\u2019m not mistaken …<\/p>\n

I owe him an e-mail response,<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s like 16 months overdue.<\/p>\n

Typical Amy.<\/p>\n

Anyways … <\/p>\n

I didn\u2019t actually end up speaking with the fraternity brother I called today,<\/p>\n

As I was directed to his voicemail,<\/p>\n

So it\u2019s really a non-event.<\/p>\n

But still,<\/p>\n

I figured I\u2019d share with you what led me to punching his office digits.<\/p>\n

You see, <\/p>\n

I have a case where I need an expert witness,<\/p>\n

And it\u2019s not one of my typical criminal cases,<\/p>\n

But a civil case.<\/p>\n

So I was going to through my list of resources for the particular expert witness I was searching and …<\/p>\n

\u2019J-Lo and behold,<\/p>\n

There was his name.<\/p>\n

Hmmm<\/em><\/p>\n

I thought.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s definitely him, because seeing his name reminded me that he worked in the field I was seeking,<\/p>\n

But should I call him?<\/p>\n

I contemplated it for a good one second,<\/p>\n

And then decided,<\/p>\n

Why not?<\/em><\/p>\n

What\u2019s the harm in checking to see if a fraternity brother can make a nickel or two off a case?<\/p>\n

Heck, he probably doesn\u2019t even know who I am now.<\/p>\n

Personally, it\u2019s hard for me to imagine that many know …<\/p>\n

Though in reality, <\/p>\n

It\u2019s good gossip material …<\/p>\n

So several probably do.<\/p>\n

Whatever.<\/p>\n

Anyways, <\/p>\n

Since we didn\u2019t connect I don\u2019t know whether he knows or not,<\/p>\n

But I’m curious to see if I get a return call.<\/p>\n

Of course,<\/p>\n

I left my name,<\/p>\n

Not Joe’s …<\/p>\n

So since I lack Joe’s name recognition,<\/p>\n

I might not get the return call as promptly as he would.<\/p>\n

We’ll see.<\/p>\n

Update:<\/strong> ’K … I didn’t get a return call as much as I could tell, at least I never received a return voicemail message. However, it’s very possible that since I was a cold call inquiry and my call was made Friday, hearing back Tuesday or Wednesday would not be unreasonable, nonetheless, I wanted to check this item off the to-do list, so I figured I’d call him again … first thing Tuesday morning. This time I didn’t get voicemail, but got a live body, who eventually routed me to him. It was definitely my fraternity brother … voice sounds the same. He’s a good guy, I always enjoyed talking with him before, so it was really a challenge for me not to get into the whole … “Hey, how ya doing?<\/em>” … line of discussion or respond with my subtle, yet tasteless “Nothing … anymore … ever.<\/em>“-answer to the “What’s up?<\/em>” query. Anyways, I’ve been scrambling today to get some things done, so I went straight into some screening questions to see if he could help me and never got into to the whole who I was or wasn’t thing at all. He was very professional, very courteous … I do wish I had time to say “Hey, it’s me<\/em>” and chat with him a bit. But I didn’t today. And he gave no clue that he knew who I was, though really … I sorta, kinda sensed he did.  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Guess what I did last Friday? NO, Not that !!! No, what I did was totally Debbie Gibson Out of The Blue, I called one of my fraternity brothers !!! Yeah … Surprised the daylights out of me, too. Now, To date … I haven\u2019t spoken, nor seen as far as I know, Any of…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[140],"tags":[],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":140,"label":"Life"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy","author_link":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":7,"category_info":[{"term_id":140,"name":"Life","slug":"life","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":144,"taxonomy":"category","description":"","parent":0,"count":48,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":140,"category_count":48,"category_description":"","cat_name":"Life","category_nicename":"life","category_parent":0}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1505"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1505"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1505\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1505"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1505"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/amynews.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1505"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}